Recognising the wishes and feelings of children - how old is old enough?

23 October 2013

Children grow up so quickly.  They have opinions from a young age and our society encourages children to be confident and to speak out.  From age 14, they make decisions about which GCSE and A Level subjects they want to study, which will impact their careers and the rest of their lives. 

But, at what point does the law recognise their opinions?

The first section of the Children Act 1989 says that, when the court is making a decision about a child’s upbringing, it will have regard to “the ascertainable wishes and feelings of the child concerned in light of his age and understanding”.

In a recent case decided by a High Court Judge, F v F [2013] EWHC 2683 (Fam), Mrs Justice Theis ordered that two sisters aged 15 (“L”) and 11 (“M”) should be given the measles, mumps and rubella vaccine (MMR) against their wishes. The facts were as follows:

  • L had the initial vaccination at birth but not the booster shot.  M was not vaccinated at all
  • The parents had agreed not to vaccinate M because of controversy over the MMR vaccination and risks
  • The parents subsequently divorced
  • The father changed his mind and asked the court to make Specific Issue Orders that both L and M should receive the vaccination.  The mother opposed the father’s application
  • L and M did not want to have the vaccination

The Judge ordered that both girls should be vaccinated.  In coming to her decision she weighed the following factors:

  • Her view that the girls’ wishes and feelings were influenced by a number of factors, including their mother’s views
  • She did not consider the girls had a balanced understanding of the issues involved
  • The girls had focussed on the ingredients in the vaccine, rather than the consequences of them not having it
  • Medical advice was for children to receive the vaccine, despite side effects

During the proceedings, the Judge met the children and described them as “charming, intelligent, articulate and thoughtful”.  At first glance, this was a surprising decision, in particular given L’s age.  The Judge made it clear, however, that the girls’ wishes and feelings was only one factor for the court to consider and, on this set of facts, it was not the overwhelming factor.  In the Judge’s view, the girls lacked a balanced understanding of the issues involved.  From a practical perspective, it will be interesting to see if the decision can be enforced and whether the girls will have the vaccination.

Separating parents can sometimes disagree about the upbringing of their children and Judges regularly see disputes about decisions relating to medical treatment, religion and schooling. Our law enshrines an obligation for the court to consider a child’s wishes and feelings, but the extent to which the child’s own view will be determinative will depend on the facts of the case.  These are difficult cases and there will always be a careful and thorough investigation into the child’s expressed wishes.

For more information about the issues raised in this blog, please contact a member of the family team.

Share insightLinkedIn Twitter Facebook Email to a friend Print

Email this page to a friend

We welcome views and opinions about the issues raised in this blog. Should you require specific advice in relation to personal circumstances, please use the form on the contact page.

Leave a comment

You may also be interested in:

Ready to find out where you stand?

Our online systems allow you to get started anywhere, any time and you can save your progress.

Click here to get started

Skip to content Home About Us Insights Services Contact Accessibility